Breakup Season

This period seems to be the breakup season or i should say for the past few months had been the case.
had been hearing about breakups, quarrels etc.
y relationship nowadays had become so fragile?
Or is it the effort placed into the relationship?

In a relationship, each person plays a different role or in fact everyone can choose..
the can be either the giver or the taker or even both... its a very 'grey' kinda thing...
but balancing in the role of a giver and taken within a couple is almost impossible..
cos everyone have their preferred role and their selfish sides...

Taking up either role can have their pros and cons and in fact staying and maintaining the respective role carrying out the required or expected acts and duties are never easy...
one can be a 'Giver' at the initial stage of the relationship and subsequently switched to the role of the 'Taker' unknowingly... this is when issues and probs starts arising cos the initial 'Taker' will feel the difference in treatments and might feel that the 'LOVE' is no longer there...
Usually 'Givers' are rarely tired of giving, in fact they are willing to give more as time goes by... Its only until the point when they start doubting the relationship then things starts to change...
On the other hand 'Takers' might get greedy by nature, expecting more and more as the relationship goes. Cant really blame them cos naturally human beings always ask for MORE!

'Givers' around me had met with obstacles in relationships. I had seen alot of 'Givers' tearing over the lost love and lost relationship yet one surprising fact is that MOST of the 'Givers' are still willing to give and commit even more in their next relationship. This includes myself.
Silly 'Givers'.

I guess this is the nature that makes us 'Givers'. Just wanna give all out into a relationship, Playing 'Show hand' in a Poker game. Never fear the fall even if it occurs overs and over again.
We know the pain, yet we never give up cos we dont want to deprive our next 'Prince Charming' or 'Angel' of having the feeling of being love and doted by us.

Silly 'Givers' might not be the best lovers but i am sure its comfortable to be around us.
'Givers' Power Unite!! lol

i kinda miss him today... maybe because i had been hanging up wif the "single" club too much...
i started to wonder if he even think of me?? just for that good 5 sec??
did he ever?? or he had already completely forgotten about me??
I will never know =)